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  • PAGE 7 \ A mutant Paramecium escaped from a Stillwell Biology Lab?? or just another example of rising paisley fanaticism??? y\ $ 2.00 Per Visit Home of SUNTANA Beds Ask about our package deals Located between Barretts River House Restaurant and Hot Stuff Mon - Thurs 11:00AM - 8:00PM Fri - Sat 10:00AM - 6:00PM Phone: 293-3984 \W FREE Cullowhee Drugs & Gifts (over the counter drugs) lr 293-9522 FREE Every 5th person with their opinion along with this ad will receive a free 16oz soft drink, while prizes are available Cullowhee Drugs is in the process of rearranging the store. It would be very helpful if you would drop by and give your opinion as to what you would like to see brought into the store. Some ideas which have previously been given are: ( ) Health Foods ( ) T-Shirt Monogramming/Including Greek Letters ( ) Camera repair & accessories ( ) Gifts ($10 & under) ( ) Other If you would like to see any of these or have any suggestions, please bring this ad to Cullowhee Drugs & give your opinion. Thanks for your support! m Counselor's Corner: DEALING WITH DOUBLE MESSAGES FROM PARENTS by Pam Edwards Almost every parent has two wishes: (1) that his or her children grow up to be independent, effective people, and (2) that his or her children stay helpless and dependent. Sound confusing? It is. The reason for this: Because there is a little child part within each of us who wants to hold on, fears abandonment, and feels inadequate at times, and there is also a mature part that allows us to let go. The result of these two parts merging is a "double message" which is usually hidden from parents and their children. You as a young adult, coming to college, becoming more independent from your parents, are probably dealing with some double messages yourself. At times the mature parts and the child parts of your parents want contradictory things, so that your mom's or dad's "double bind," a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation. Your parents are not "bad" for having these feelings.and you're not "bad" forfeeling angry and confused. Almost everyone has experienced a double bind from his or her parents at onetime or another, and the overall double message received is "Grow up and be strong" versus "Don't grow up." You may be more bound to your parents than you'd like to believe. It may be helpful to look over aspects of your relationship with them from the past to the present. If you recognize that you've been bound too tightly to one or both of your parents, keeping you from moving freely, you've taken one important step out of the bind. The next is recognize that your parents have unintentionally been giving you a "Don't grow up" message that has been enforced by specific techniques: belittlement and undermining of your self-confidence; making themselves seem indispensable to you; provoking guilt if you move away from their control; threatening you with withdrawal of their love, etc. Then, it's i mporta nt to see that the" Don't grow up" message is coming from the little child in your parent(s) and is being responded to by the little child in yourself and has nothing to do with the mature needs and requirements of either of you. The most important recognition is that in almost all parents, the "Don't grow up" message is paired with a "Grow up strong" message that comes from the mature parenting part of them. It is this mature, nurturant aspect of your parent(s) that you must respond to. There's a lot of security in being emotionally bound to your parents. It's deeply familiar. It's knowing that there is somebody out there who has always been there for you, so you are not alone. Breaking the dependence may bring on guilty feelings of being an abandoner, fearful feelings of being abandoned, and angry feelings. Getting through these feelings requires gaining a perspective and seeing the reactions as coming from the frightened child within your parent(s) and/or you. Calling on the nurturing parent within yourself can be a vital step in your own development. By strengthening your own good-parenting ability, you'll be able to respond in a caring way toward thechild in your parent(s). You'll also be able to be a caring parent to yourself. Further reading: CUTTING LOOSE: AN ADULT GUIDE TO COMING TO TERMS WITH YOUR PARENTS by Howard M. Halpern, PH.D., Bantam Books, Toronto, 1976. AYEC: COMMITTED TO IMPROVING QUALITY OF SERVICES TO CHILDREN The Association for the Education for Young Children is a national organization committed to improving the quality and availability of services to young children from birth to age eight. Founded in the 1970's, the 40,000 AEYC members include teachers, assistants, administrators, educators, trainers, consultants, social workers, psychologists, health specialists, parents, physicians, and elected or appointed officials that make decisions that effect children. The AEYC offers its members early childhood information that is practical, professional and affordable. It provides this information through printed media including "Young Children" - a bimonthly refereed journal, The Affiliate - a newletter, the NC-AEYC News and some 60 professional books it has published. The AEYC also holds annual conferences at the national and state level. At Western Carolina University the members of the WCU-AEYC are committed to identifying and increasing awareness of the needs and rights of young children and theirfamilies. The next meeting will be held Oct. 23 at 6 p.m. in room 324 of the Belk Building. The WCU-AEYC is open to all Child Development and Early Childhood Education majors. Some of the activities for this year will include a Halloween Party for the Cullohwee Child Development Center, several speakers sponsoring "Week of the Young Child." For more information contact President Lynn Stephenson at 293-9214 or the WCU-AEYC faculty advisor, Robin Roper. OPEN 7 AM - 8 PM MON - SAT CAFE' '^ ta EST. FOR 38 YEARS # GOOD HOME-STYLE FOOD COOKED RIGHT WHEN YOU ORDER IT AND NO SOONER! DAILY LUNCH & DINNER SPECIALS AND A BOTTOM-LESS GLASS OF THE BEST ICED TEA IN TOWN ACROSS FROM SPEEDY'S BETWEEN THE ALPHA PHI ALPHA HOUSE AND CULLOWHEE EXXON. REX'S PACKAGE STORE . COOL BEER . WINE COOLERS . WINE AMICHEL0B 586-4522 EAST SYLVA SHOPPING CENTER BACK THE CATS STUDENTS AND FACULTY WELCOME
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The Western Carolinian is Western Carolina University’s student-run newspaper. The paper was published as the Cullowhee Yodel from 1924 to 1931 before changing its name to The Western Carolin...

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